Mon Lo

Yemi Alade's song "Mon Lo" delves into the emotional turmoil of being in a toxic relationship. The lyrics express the singer's realization that the love she is experiencing is harmful, echoing the warnings she received from her mother. The repetitive phrase "Mon lo" translates to "I go" or "I leave" in Yoruba, emphasizing her decision to walk away from the damaging relationship.

The song uses vivid metaphors to describe the highs and lows of the relationship. The lover is compared to champagne and paraga (a local alcoholic drink), symbolizing the intoxicating yet ultimately painful nature of their love. Despite the initial sweetness and allure, the relationship leaves her in pain, highlighting the contrast between the temporary euphoria and the lasting hurt.

Yemi Alade's lyrics also touch on themes of self-worth and empowerment. She acknowledges that she deserves better and decides to leave to preserve her well-being. The repeated lines about waiting and praying for change reflect the hope and patience often invested in toxic relationships, only to be met with disappointment. The song's powerful message is a call to recognize one's value and the importance of leaving harmful situations, even when it feels difficult.

"Mon Lo" is a poignant reflection on the complexities of love and the strength required to prioritize one's happiness and health. Yemi Alade's soulful delivery and the song's relatable narrative resonate with anyone who has faced similar struggles in their relationships.