Este Amor Que Hay Que Callar
Yolandita Monge
The Silent Struggle of Forbidden Love
Yolandita Monge's song "Este Amor Que Hay Que Callar" delves into the complexities and emotional turmoil of a forbidden love affair. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a woman trapped in a loveless marriage, where her physical interactions with her husband are devoid of passion and filled with thoughts of another man. This juxtaposition highlights the emotional disconnect she feels in her marriage and the deep yearning she has for her true love. The repeated phrase "pienso en ti" (I think of you) underscores her constant longing and emotional attachment to her lover, even in the most intimate moments with her husband.
The song also explores the societal constraints and moral dilemmas associated with adultery. The woman and her lover are forced to meet in secret, in "sordidos moteles" (sordid motels), highlighting the shame and secrecy that shroud their relationship. Despite the societal judgment and the moral implications, the woman justifies their love by suggesting that it is destined, as if sanctioned by a higher power. This belief provides her with a sense of solace and justification for their actions, suggesting that true love transcends societal norms and moral codes.
Furthermore, the song touches on the theme of hope and the desire for a future where their love can be openly acknowledged. The lyrics express a longing for a world where they can live their love without fear of judgment, a place where their relationship is accepted and celebrated. This dream of a hopeful future contrasts sharply with their current reality, filled with secrecy and guilt. The repetition of the phrase "tanto por vivir" (so much to live for) at the end of the song emphasizes the potential and the unfulfilled dreams that their love holds, leaving the listener with a sense of both hope and melancholy.