Bite My Tongue

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The Struggle of Self-Identity and Betrayal in 'Bite My Tongue'

You Me At Six's song 'Bite My Tongue' delves into the complex emotions of self-identity, betrayal, and the struggle to reconcile with one's past. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a tumultuous relationship, possibly with a former friend or a part of oneself, that has led to feelings of resentment and disillusionment. The opening lines, 'I hate to break it to you but / You're just a lonely star,' set the tone for the song, highlighting the speaker's frustration with someone who has let their ego and pride overshadow their true self.

The recurring theme of biting one's tongue signifies the internal conflict of wanting to express anger and disappointment but holding back to avoid further conflict. This is evident in the lines, 'You keep me on the edge of my seat / I bite my tongue so you don't hear me.' The speaker grapples with the desire to hate the person who has caused them pain but acknowledges the difficulty in doing so, especially when that person has played a significant role in shaping who they are. This internal struggle is further emphasized in the chorus, 'I wanna hate every part of you in me / I can't hate the ones who made me.'

The song also touches on the pressures and sacrifices of pursuing a career in music. The line, 'I'm married to the music / For better or for worse,' reflects the artist's commitment to their craft, despite the challenges and criticisms they face. The lyrics convey a sense of isolation and the feeling of being misunderstood, as seen in, 'Last I checked I was a fucking wreck / I called for help and no one showed up.' This sense of abandonment and the harsh realities of fame are central to the song's narrative, culminating in a powerful declaration of defiance and self-worth.

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  1. Bite My Tongue
  2. Save It For The Bedroom
  3. Stay With Me
  4. Lived a Lie
  5. Room To Breathe
  6. Too Young To Feel This Old
  7. Give
  8. Take On The World
  9. 3AM
  10. Fast Forward
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