If It Is You (너였다면)
Jung Seung Hwan
The Heartache of Unrequited Love in 'If It Is You'
Jung Seung Hwan's song 'If It Is You (너였다면)' is a poignant ballad that delves into the depths of unrequited love and the pain of longing for someone who does not reciprocate those feelings. The lyrics express the artist's struggle with the one-sided nature of his affection, and the emotional turmoil that comes with it. The song's narrator is bewildered by the difficulty of getting the object of his affection to notice his love and is surprised by the intensity of his own pain.
The chorus poses a hypothetical question, wondering how the other person would feel if they were in his shoes, experiencing the 'crazy days' of unrequited love. The narrator imagines that if the roles were reversed, the other person would understand the overwhelming pain and desire he feels. There's a sense of desperation in the wish that if they could only feel what he feels, they might reciprocate his love. The song captures the universal experience of loving someone without being loved back, and the hope that somehow, they might come to understand and share your feelings.
The bridge of the song reveals a resignation to the reality of the situation. The narrator acknowledges that the other person has already given a 'silent answer,' indicating their lack of interest. Despite this, he continues to hope and pretend not to understand the clear message. The lyrics convey a deep sense of sadness and the difficulty of letting go, even when it's clear that the love will remain unrequited. The song resonates with anyone who has ever experienced the heartache of loving someone who doesn't love them back.