Romance de la otra

Rocío Jurado's song "Romance de la otra" delves into the poignant and often overlooked perspective of 'the other woman' in a romantic relationship. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a woman who lives in the shadows, dressed in black, isolated, and devoid of the joys and connections that typically accompany a fulfilling life. The repeated questioning of why she lives this way underscores the societal judgment and curiosity about her situation, yet no one truly understands her plight.

The chorus reveals the heart of her sorrow: she is 'the other,' a woman who loves a man she cannot fully claim as her own. She lacks the legitimacy of a marriage, symbolized by the absence of a wedding ring, and thus, she has no legal or social standing. Her existence is marked by secrecy and deprivation, as she sustains herself on stolen moments of affection and sustenance from her lover. Despite the pain and the lack of recognition, her love remains steadfast and selfless, willing to endure suffering for the sake of her lover's peace.

The song also touches on the societal condemnation and the harsh reality that her lover's commitment lies elsewhere. The 'malas lenguas' or 'bad tongues' that deliver her sentence reflect the cruel gossip and judgment she faces. Despite this, she accepts her fate without complaint, acknowledging that she is not deemed worthy of the same respect and rights as the legitimate partner. Her love is portrayed as pure and sacrificial, willing to endure the stigma and loneliness for the sake of the man she loves, even if it means her own demise.